It's not technically 'wrong' to have feelings for someone else regardless of your relation to them. However if you pursue it there are obviously going to be some complications.
Firstly of all, regardless of whether or not she's your good friend's sister, you need to consider the age gap. I have no idea how old she is or how old you are, but if you're in your teens I wouldn't recommend getting into anything with anyone where the age gap is 2 years+.
Secondly, you need to figure out how much you like her. There's no real point in making a big deal out of this if you think your friend's sister is attractive (as opposed to being attracted TO them. There is a difference.)
Thirdly, if you do decide to pursue this, you need to think about how this'll impact on your relationship with your friend. As most guys are generally really, really protective of their sisters you might want to take the pace of your relationship with his sister quietly and slowly.
anyway, it is ultimately up to you to decide whether or not it is irresponsible or wrong, but sometimes you really can't help falling for someone even if its against your greater will.
I can't guarantee I'll always give the right answers or that my advice is flawless or the advice I delve will be the one that works out best for you, but I promise I'll give you the consideration, love and empathy you deserve.
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